Good Relationship:
A good relationship is when someone accepts your past,
supports your present and encourage your future.
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A good relationship has good signs |
A good relationship is the one that is built on the basis of
true and trustful friendship. In which everything is together shared. There are
no specific male or female roles. Everything including ideas, needs and plans
are made jointly.
A good relationship is the one in which there is respect,
care, love and most importantly trust for each other. Trust is the main thing
which can make any relationship strong and meaningful.
How to have a great relationship:
A good relationship
can be with anybody, it may be with your parents, siblings, and friends,
relative and with your loved ones. To keep any relationship successful you have
to follow different rules of building a good relationship.
Some of these rules are:
Having a good communication:
Good communication with your loved ones is a vital case in
any good relationship. Having a good relationship means that you should share
each and everything with each other on the daily basis. With the passage of
time most of the relationships turns worst, this is due to fact that there is
not good communication among each other which is the cause of separation.
Communication is the key of meaningful relationship in which
both the partners equally and mutually invest to make it long-lasting.
Express completely and honestly:
To have a great relationship you should give importance to
each other by sharing each and everything completely and honestly without any
doubt. To keep a relationship healthy partners should discuss everything with
each other from the start of the day to end of the day. By discussing your
whole day with one another this will show other partner his/her importance in
your life. This is the way you can make
any relationship valuable and trustful.
Sympathize with each other:
Whenever your partner share with you anything, any insecurity
or secret, it is your duty that you shout empathize your partner with your
loving and caring words. And whenever your partner share something secret to
you should take your partner in confidence that you will help him/her in their
problem and don’t tell your secret to anybody.
Tell them that you have trust in them and thank them for
being honest and clear with you.
Admire each other:
It should be the responsibility for every partner to admire and
to value each other in their work or in everything belongs to them. This is a
good way to recognize each other their importance and value in your life.
Admiring each other makes a relationship strong and long-lasting. When your
partner does something good for you appreciate him, this will make your partner
peaceful and happier.
Avoid lying:
In any relationship, lying can cause the worst effect on your
healthy relationship. In any relationship, one lie can destroy the trust that
has been built with many efforts and struggles. So never speak lie to your
partner this will make him/her feel that you don’t have any importance for them
in your life.
Reasons why a good relationship turns bad:
It feels very devastated when you wish like that relationship
don’t end and it came to end. Abuse,
anger, trust issues, lack of communication, don’t give time to each other,
don’t supporting each other due to these things even a healthy and best
relationship become ruined and toxic. A toxic relationship can destroy a person
both from inside and out.
The most common mistakes that make great relationships turn
into bad ones are:
Expecting them to make you happy:
Yes, it’s the duty of your partner to keep you happy and
don’t destroy your happiness but you can’t expect this only from one side. It
is the mutual role from both sides that make each other happy and peaceful.
Being in a relationship doesn’t mean that you only depend only from one side but
it is the duty of both the partners.
When in any type of relationship you only expect from one
side than even a successful relationship turns worst.
Communicating with abusive nonverbal words:
It is the worst sign in the relationship that when you call
your partner with the abusive words. You don’t respect each other or don’t give
value to one another.
Change your nonverbal words in something positive to keep
your relation successful. Show some respect and love to each other otherwise, your relationship will be destroyed for life.
Partner change:
Sometimes people change which can cause a huge and destructing
change in your peaceful relationship.
The time when the partner loves you, care for you, respect you
and loyal to you but now he/she is exactly opposite to it. Now he/she don’t
have any type of such feelings for you. Your partner ignores you don’t give time
to you and going far from you. Such type of acts from your partner really
destroy you from inside and when you
discuss this with your partner then your partner says you to end the
relationship because your partner is now not interested in you. And this can
cause the end of a good relationship into the worst ones.
Ego:
Probably when the relation starts everything seems good. When
there is a little argument between both of them, both urge to seek out the problem
but as the relationship becomes old partners take their arguments and fights to
their ego. What if my partner is not talking with me than I will also not talk to him/her which is a totally worse situation and leads this ego to a breakup of a relationship.
Criticizing:
Relationships may ends when you start criticizing each other
for little things. Your positive words turn negative for your partner. In
relationships, you both should support one another not tearing each other.
Long Distance:
Long-distance can cause the end of any relationship. It is very
difficult to be in long-distance when you are in any relationship. But if you
truly love each other than you have to compromise.
Conclusion:
From this blog, you will come up with the points that why a good relationship turns worst and how to get rid of it.
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